Best Relationship Books
Strengthen your personal connections with these expert-recommended relationship books. Frequently cited in popular psychology and self-help articles for their transformative advice.
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Discover the key to transforming millions of relationships worldwide in this #1 New York Times bestseller. Dr. Gary Chapman shares his proven approach to showing and receiving love, offering practical and insightful wisdom to deepen intimacy with your partner. Updated to reflect the complexities of modern relationships, this book includes a personal assessment to help you discover your love language and that of your loved one. Whether your relationship is flourishing or struggling, The 5 Love Languages can help bring you to deeper levels of intimacy starting today.
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
This book offers the seven essential principles for making a marriage work, based on years of research by a psychology professor and marriage expert. The author provides couples with practical and profound strategies for paying attention to each other and creating a strong foundation for conflict resolution. The book includes exercises and questionnaires proven to strengthen marriages and create shared meaning.
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Mark MansonDiscover the secret behind successful couples therapy in this groundbreaking book supported by science. Emotionally Focused Therapy views love relationships as an attachment bond and has become widely popular among therapists worldwide. In Hold Me Tight, Dr. Sue Johnson introduces Emotionally Focused Therapy to the general public for the first time. By focusing on key moments in a relationship and using them as touch points for seven healing conversations, couples can learn to reestablish safe emotional connection and preserve the attachment bond. With illuminating advice and practical exercises based on case studies from her practice, couples will discover how to heal and enrich their relationships for a lifetime of love.
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Mark MansonDiscover the groundbreaking relationship science that can help you find and sustain love with "Attached". Psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller explore adult attachment theory, and how it can help explain why some people navigate relationships with ease while others struggle. They guide readers in identifying their attachment style and their partner's, offering a roadmap for building stronger and more fulfilling connections with the ones they love.
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Transform your relationship and discover a lasting source of love and companionship with this bestselling guide. Recommended by therapists and couples worldwide, this book helps you revive romance and remove negativity, listen to your partner, heal childhood experiences, and achieve a common vision for your dream relationship. With a new forward and chapter, this fully revised edition combines psychology, therapy, and neuroscience to help you and your partner connect on a deeper level and experience the joy of a fulfilling relationship.
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Explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire with a bold and provocative new take on intimacy and sex. This therapist's bestselling book draws on over 20 years of experience to examine the complexities of sustaining desire in long-term relationships. With case studies and lively discussion, discover how to bring playful and even poetic sex back home. Wise, witty, and revelatory, Mating in Captivity will transform the way you live and love.
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The Relationship Cure
A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
Transform troubled relationships into positive ones with this groundbreaking, practical program. Discover the subtle secrets of building and maintaining strong emotional connections with loved ones, colleagues, and even strangers. Based on two decades of research from the country’s foremost relationship expert, this simple five-step program empowers readers to greatly improve all of their relationships. Learn the key elements of healthy relationships and the powerful concept of the emotional “bid.” With the tools provided by this New York Times bestselling author, you can become a master at bidding for emotional connection and responding to the bids of others.
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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex
Discover the secrets to unlocking successful relationships in this modern classic. Based on years of counseling and millions of success stories, learn how to communicate your needs and accept differences between men and women to improve intimacy and avoid conflict.
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Come as You Are
The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Unlock the secrets of female sexuality with this groundbreaking book based on cutting-edge research and brain science. Discover why there will never be a "pink pill" for women and learn how every woman has her own unique sexuality. Dive into the context surrounding arousal, desire, and orgasm and discover how stress, mood, trust, and body image are all central factors to a woman's sexual wellbeing. With this essential guide, you can transform your sex life and discover confidence and joy in the bedroom like never before.
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Mindful Relationship Habits
25 Practices for Couples to Enhance Intimacy, Nurture Closeness, and Grow a Deeper Connection
This book focuses on building "Mindful Relationship Habits" to help deepen connections and enhance intimacy in a relationship. The authors outline 25 specific practices to help you and your partner be more present with one another, communicate better, and respond to each other's needs in a more loving and conscious way. Backed by scientific research and insights from mindfulness and relationship experts, this book is a valuable guide for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship.
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The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz
Love, Sex and Staying Warm by Neil Rosenthal
Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone
I Love You But I Don't Trust You by Mira Kirshenbaum
He's Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt
I Hear You by Michael S. Sorensen
Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum
Eight Dates by John Gottman
The Sex-Starved Marriage by Michele Weiner Davis
Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
The Science of Happily Ever After by TY Tashiro
Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg
Course Of Love by A. de. Botton
Conscious Loving by Gay Hendricks
Deal Breakers by Bethany Marshall
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey
All About Love by Bell Hooks
The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm
The New Rules of Marriage by Terrence Real
When Sorry Isn't Enough by Gary Chapman
No More Fighting by Alicia Muñoz Lpc
Couple Skills by Matthew McKay
The Highly Sensitive Person in Love by Elaine N. Aron
Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari
Committed by Elizabeth Gilbert
The State of Affairs by Esther Perel
How to Be an Adult in Relationships by David Richo
The High-Conflict Couple by Alan E. Fruzzetti
Love At The Speed Of Email by Lisa McKay
You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero
Why We Love by Helen Fisher
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb
Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson
Models by Mark Manson
Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs
No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover
Loving Bravely by Alexandra H. Solomon
47 Little Love Boosters for a Happy Marriage by Marko Petkovic M. Sc.
201 Relationship Questions by Barrie Davenport
Listen, Learn, Love by Susie Albert Miller
The Love Dare by Alex Kendrick
The Bright Hour by Nina Riggs
The Wisdom of Sundays by Oprah Winfrey
Soppy by Philippa Rice
Tell Me More by Kelly Corrigan
His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Jr. Harley
I'll Push You by Patrick Gray
Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin Mft
Stop Walking on Eggshells by Paul T. T. Mason Ms
Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married by Gary Chapman
Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl by Natalie Lue Nml
Dear John by Nicholas Sparks
To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man by Gregg Michaelsen
When the Past Is Present by David Richo
Communication Miracles for Couples by Jonathan Robinson
woulda. coulda. shoulda. by Jennifer Hurvitz
Marriage Rules by Harriet Lerner
Happiness Is a Choice You Make by Leland
A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara
Boundaries by Henry Cloud
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura
Choosing ME Before WE by Christine Arylo
Love Is Never Enough by Aaron T. Beck
Essays in Love by Alain de Botton
Fed Up by Gemma Hartley
The Geography of You and Me by Jennifer E. Smith
Radical Candor by Kim Scott
Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert
Why Him? Why Her? by Helen Fisher
Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
Polysecure by Jessica Fern
She Comes First by Ian Kerner
How to Fix a Broken Heart by Guy Winch
The Art of Communicating by Thich Nhat Hanh
We by Robert A. Johnson
Anger by Thich Nhat Hanh
Getting to Yes by Roger Fisher
The Man's Guide to Women by John Gottman
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail by John Gottman
Not "Just Friends" by Shirley P. Glass
Love Sense by Sue Johnson Edd
The Relationship Handbook by George Pransky
We Do by Stan Tatkin Mft
Date Night In by Ashley Rodriguez
Intellectual Foreplay by Eve Eschner Hogan
How to Be a Person in the World by Heather Havrilesky
Dare to Lead by Brené Brown